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I am bi and have a crush on my bff

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    So I have known this girl for a while and I really want to come out to her and tell her I love her but I am really really scared that she is straight. Please send some tips my way!
    thank you.
    The Rainwing~
    Hi. I’m also bi and I’ve found a good way to find out someone’s sexuality is to first talk about your own. I understand it’s difficult, but unfortunately that’s the best I can do for ya. I usually say something along the lines of “I’m bi and my bi-fi signal is off. I’m having a hard time finding other bi people.” And usually they’ll say something like “Oh well I’m bi.” Or “My gaydar does that too.” Or if they stare at me in awkward silence I just kinda assume they’re straight. Or if it’s a guy I like (since I’m a guy) I’ll say “Damn, he’s hot, don’t ya think?” And their reaction tells me all I need to know.

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        Hi TheRainWing, that's some awesome advice from StopitMyles.

        Also, by removing gender from language can really open it up in these situations. So if you talk about things like "is there anyone you like / fancy" rather than "are there any guys you like / fancy" it gives people an opportunity to feel comfortable in being open.

        Good luck and I hope all goes well!

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            Thank you so much StopitMyles and Blondie I will be surw to try your tips out for myself I will be sure to keep people who want to know updated on the situation!

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                So if anybody is interested in this thread still I came out to her and told her I liked somebody in our english class. She immediately started guessing who it was but at some point she said "No it can't be me I am too ugly" what do I do I think that she is beautiful but she has very low self confidence.

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