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I'm Not Sure If I'm Bi or Straight

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    deakin
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    I’m a boy, and I’m not sure if I’m bi or straight. I usually think about girls, when I hear love, but occasionally I think of boys (In free time usually)
    I might think about sexual activities with both male and female as well. When I think about both of these topics, I feel sort of fuzzy and nervous. (Especially for one particular male and female)
    Does this make me Bi or just plain weird?

    (I’m very sorry if this is hard to understand, I’m quite anxious at the moment)

    #21261
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    deakin
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    I’ll also add, I tend to feel emotionally attracted to females to where I’m usually sexually attracted to males. And I’m more 90% Female, per say.

    #21278
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    lola34
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    I’m a girl and I feel the same way. I know I’m into guys, but I’m occasionally thinking about girls these days..its kinda annoying😓

    #21321
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    willow
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    Hey Deakin!

    Thank you for bringing this to Community. What you’re feeling is quite normal! If our sexuality doesn’t land in a perfect box, it’s easy to feel weird… but know, it’s all part of the process of getting to know yourself.

    Hey there!

    Thanks for reaching out.. I’m sorry you’re feeling troubled. It’s definitely a more difficult process when we’re not an easy ‘straight’ or ‘gay.’

    It’s completely normal and natural to explore your attraction.

    Here’s an article on “Questioning” and exploring your sexuality:

    Putting the Q Into LGBTQ – 8 Things to Know About Questioning Your Sexuality

    Do you find that you want romantic relationships with both males and females, too?

    -willow

    #21457
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    sophievirginia
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    Ugh, same with me, except I’m a girl.

    #21541
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    bisexuwhale
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    Hi! I recently went through a very similar thing but as a girl with my romantic thoughts automatically going to guys but on my own time thinking of both guys and girls. I am struggled for years of “am I a lesbian or am I straight” but I actually landed on bi. It took a while, a very supportive friend, and a lot of googling “What is my sexuality quizzes” and “Attraction to different genders in different ways” and lots of other variations. I have pretty recently come out to a few of my closest friends and my brother as bi and I feel pretty comfortable in this label. I am in no way trying to push you in any direction but I thought that maybe sharing my story might help since I went through a similar thing. Hope this helps!

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