We interviewed 20 year old inventor, scientist and cancer researcher Jack Andraka about his experiences with bullying and coming out

Jack Andraka’s journey began at age fifteen when, after losing a close family friend to pancreatic cancer, he invented an inexpensive early detection method for pancreatic, ovarian, and lung cancer. Now studying electrical engineering and public policy at Stanford, Andraka conducts research on nanorobots, inexpensive biosensors, disease diagnostics, water filters, and econometrics while serving as faculty at the Stanford Anesthesiology Summer Institute. During school he experienced severe bullying. Here he tells us about his experiences.

DtL: Hi Jack! Can you tell us a little bit about yourself?
Jack: I’m currently 19 years old and I’m in my sophomore year of college at Stanford studying electrical engineering and public policy. My research mostly focuses on combining bioengineering with nanomaterials to create exciting new technologies such as nanorobots and inexpensive biosensors for infectious diseases, cancer, and water contaminants. My kind of weird hobby is analysing international data sets to help create better policies for public health, international security, and the environment. In my free time I do whitewater kayaking and I represented the US at the U-23 world championships for wildwater kayaking and placed in the top 20. Aside from that I love rock climbing, biking, swimming, sometimes running, hanging out with friends, and binge watching Netflix ☺

“I experienced pretty severe bullying when I was in 7th and 8th grade especially when I came out as gay”

 

DtL: Have you ever experienced bullying?
Jack: I experienced pretty severe bullying when I was in 7th and 8th grade especially when I came out as gay. Many of my teachers that previously supported me, humiliated me in front of the class, I was ostracized by my classmates, and I had to eat my lunch alone in the bathroom. Because of this I struggled with depression and attempted suicide. However, what really helped me overcome this was throwing myself into my research and working on improving myself while trying to ignore the people that bullied me and sticking with the few friends I had. It definitely was difficult but eventually I got through it and I’m so glad.

DtL: What advice would you give to those that are being bullied?
Jack: Different strategies work for different people; however, what worked for me was focusing on the positives in my life and to work on improving myself by committing myself to my research as well as sticking with the few friends I had. Also realizing that things would get better (middle and high school sucks for a lot of people) definitely helped. So I would advise finding something you’re passionate about and working hard on that as well as hanging out with those that love and care about you (such as friends and family).

“To be honest I was a bit of a wimp when I came out. I was too nervous to tell anyone face to face”

 

DtL: Do you have a coming out story? If so can you share it with us?
Jack: To be honest I was a bit of a wimp when I came out. I was too nervous to tell anyone face to face so I first told my camp counsellor at math camp and then following several awkward discussions with him and a million practice runs in my head I texted my best friend that I was gay and promptly threw my phone across the room and refused to look at it for the rest of the night. I then asked her the next day to tell everyone for me and the news spread pretty quickly (it was a small, conservative school so I was the only out gay person and me coming out was scandalous news). Then some people told their parents who asked my parents about it, and to put it lightly it was an awkward conversation when I got home. But fortunately my parents were supportive (although I’m still shunned by some of my extended family) and after a rough patch in 8th grade I got into high school and things were a-okay from there!

DtL: At such a young age you have done something truly amazing and invented a test to detect pancreatic cancer. What motivated you to explore that area specifically?
Jack: I got really interested in pancreatic cancer after a close family friend, who was like an uncle to me, passed away from pancreatic cancer. After doing some research I found that there really was no way to detect these cancers until it was far too late, when patients had less than a 2% chance of survival. So I set out armed with 8th grade biology to change how we detected pancreatic cancer.

DtL: If you could go back in time, what one thing would you tell your younger self?
Jack: I would tell myself to always focus more on the positives in your life rather than the negatives and that you aren’t as alone as you think. Also I would probably tell myself that it does get better and that everything works out in the end.

DtL: You have said you would like to ‘help inspire other LGBT+ youth to get involved in STEM’ – do you think the LGBT+ community is underrepresented in those arenas, if so why do you think that is?
Jack: Although studies are difficult to find, those that do exist suggest that the number of LGBT individuals in STEM fields is 20% lower than expected. In this year’s OUT 100, purportedly a list of the 100 most compelling LGBT individuals, there wasn’t a single scientist or engineer. So I think it is both an issue of underrepresentation of LGBT individuals in STEM as well as an issue of underrepresentation of individuals in STEM in LGBT media. Both the LGBT and STEM community have to work hard to reduce this underrepresentation.

“I set out armed with 8th grade biology to change how we detected pancreatic cancer”

 

DtL: What does the future hold for Jack?
Jack: Long term? I have no clue. In the short term I’ve been continuing my work on inexpensive disease diagnostics and water biosensors that can be used for crowdsourcing epidemiology and environmental monitoring in resource-limited settings. I’m also working on creating nanorobots to detect and treat cancers as well as perform targeted gene delivery for interesting applications in the treatment of genetic diseases and understanding basic biology.

DtL: What advice would you give to those who may be struggling to come to terms with their sexuality?
Jack: My biggest advice would be to take it at your own pace and do what feels comfortable. Coming to terms with your sexuality and coming out to your people is a confusing and scary time, I’m not going to lie. So just take it slow, do what feels right, and it will work out in the end ☺

DtL: What motto do you live by?
Jack: “Do it, you won’t!” I’m not sure it’s a motto, but it is my favourite thing to say. It captures my reckless/impulsive streak but I also think it helps me go outside my comfort zone and try new experiences. Although it is a motto that should be taken with a grain of salt.

DtL: Is there anything you would like to add?
Jack: Just be yourself and go out there and change the world!

Edyn Jacks talks about why she bullied others

We know from our research that those who bully others have complex issues that are not being addressed elsewhere, and that bullying can also be a learnt behaviour. After all, none of us are born with the ability to draw or sing a song; nor are we born with the ability to discriminate against someone because of the colour of their hair, or their skin or any other unique factor. Unfortunately, instead of taking the time to understand or embrace that difference, some people act negatively towards the unknown.

Here Edyn Jacks talks about what motivated her to bully others.

 

We interviewed YouTuber and online personality Eugenia Cooney about her experiences with bullying

DtL: Can you tell us a little bit about yourself?
Eugenia: Hi, my name is Eugenia Cooney and I’m a YouTuber and online entertainer. A lot of the videos I create are makeup and fashion oriented, both are passions of mine. I’m originally from Connecticut and have been living in Los Angeles for about 5 months now. I love shopping, traveling, anime, Jack Skellington, and my dog Buzz.

DtL: Have you ever experienced bullying?
Eugenia: Yes. Unfortunately bullying is a terrible problem in most middle and high schools (from my experience). Bullying can leave a terrible impression on kids, and I do believe it can drastically decrease if kids would stick up for the ones they see being targeted. Sometimes I feel like it can be really hard for people to stick up for themselves and others, which is why I think bullying is still a major problem. For me personally, I was always afraid to speak my mind, so kids would pick on me quite a bit. Because of this my grades also began to suffer. Fortunately, I was able to be home schooled which worked out really well for me. That’s actually when I started YouTube!

“Sometimes I feel like it can be really hard for people to stick up for themselves and others”

 

DtL: What advice would you give to those that are being bullied?
Eugenia: I feel for anyone who’s going through any form of bullying. I would tell them to try ignore the people that are bullying and to surround yourself with those who love and care about you unconditionally. I feel like by just surrounding yourself with family, friends and other likeminded people that enjoy the same hobbies and things that you do, helps to maintain a healthy mental frame of mind during tough times.

DtL: Why do you think people bully?
Eugenia: I think people who feel the need to bully others are probably not very happy with their own lives. I think they probably don’t understand how to deal with their own problems and take their issues out on the people around them. Sometimes it seems like one person will thrive on grouping people up on perceivably “weaker” people who might be afraid to fight back or speak up. It’s fun for them to somehow feel like they are dominating the situation. A lot of people say it’s jealousy, but I think it’s more of a way for people to feel like they’re in control and have that power and attention.

“I think people who feel the need to bully others are probably not very happy with their own lives”

 

DtL: What are the best and worst things about being a YouTube sensation?
Eugenia: The best thing about being a YouTuber is the fanfare. They’re awesome! I can have a bad day and see someone tweet me something super nice and it makes me feel so much better about everything. Some fans even take time to send me letters and gifts and I find that so amazing. I love my fans!
The worst thing is the haters. They can be super distracting. I do my best not let it get to me, but it can definitely be hard sometimes. I wish people could treat each other more respectfully in real life and online.

DtL: If you could go back in time, what one thing would you tell your younger self?
Eugenia: If I could go back in time I would have told myself to not let bullying affect me so much. Concentrate on your own goals and ignore negative people.

“I wish people could treat each other more respectfully in real life and online”

 

DtL: What motto do you live by?
Eugenia: “If you can’t say something nice, don’t say anything at all.” I feel like if more people followed this motto the world would be a much more positive, inviting place.

DtL: What does the future hold for Eugenia?
Eugenia: The future for me includes continuing to build my Youtube career and presence online. In the future I would really like to have a small fashion line on the side, I think that would be really fun.

DtL: Is there anything you would like to add?
Eugenia: I just want to say I honestly believe that there are so many kind and wonderful people out there. Don’t let the negative ones bring you down. Stay positive and remember you are so important no matter what anyone says. Believe in yourself and life will get better!

‘Handle them carefully, for words have more power than atom bombs’ – Pearl Strachan Hurd

Our actions define us, and in society, we tend to label people or categorise individuals based upon the behaviours they exhibit. For example, we describe people that play instruments as musicians, those that paint we call artists – and although these particular examples are seemingly harmless descriptors of interests, hobbies and careers – they allow insight into the potency and permanence of a label – after all, a musician is still considered a musician even when they are not actively playing their instrument.

In these instances we know that labels such as ‘musician’ and ‘artist’ are not a comprehensive representation of an individual’s entire personality – it is absurd to think that one word could adequately summarise the complexity of human nature. Yet, we very flippantly ascribe limiting and even damaging nouns and adjectives to people, including ourselves on a regular, if not daily basis. If you take a few moments to consider how often a label has actually positively impacted your self-esteem or confidence, you will find more often than not, they serve to be reductive and restrictive, promoting both conscious and unconscious prejudice.

“It is absurd to think that one word could adequately summarise the complexity of human nature”

 

Unlike a noun describing your profession – which is obviously subject to change depending on your employment – labels weighted with negative connotations such as ‘bully’ can be hard to shift. They dehumanise the person behind the word and can permanently tarnish a person’s reputation regardless of whether or not they are actively participating in aggressive behaviours. It implies that humans are incapable of change – an oxymoronic statement, because to be human means to be in a constant state of evolution. ‘Our actions define us’ but we should be aware that the definition is not indelibly inked.

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This is why at Ditch the Label we refuse to call people ‘bullies’ and ‘victims’; although such labels may seem an accurate reflection of their experience at this precise moment in time, by calling someone a ‘bully’ you are implying that is who they are at their very core, that they are inherently ‘bad’, rather than acknowledging the fact, that sometimes, good people do bad things. We are using Anti-Bullying Week this year to spread the message that it isn’t okay to label people as ‘bullies’ or ‘victims’ anymore, because it’s counterproductive.

Just as none of us are born with the ability to draw or sing a song; nor are we born with the ability to discriminate against someone because of the colour of their skin, their sexuality or any other unique factor. We believe bullying is a learnt behaviour, not an identity and although we can’t always identify the exact reason why somebody decides to act in this manner, we do know that those who bully others have issues that are not being addressed elsewhere.

“At Ditch the Label we refuse to call people ‘bullies’ and ‘victims'”

 

One of the first steps we take in helping those that want to stop bullying is to remind them that they are not a ‘bully’ and to stop thinking of themselves as such as it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy. Instead of subscribing to villainous stereotypes and persecuting those that bully, we look to address why they are behaving in such a way. Often, we find they are responding aggressively to a stressful situation – for example, a bereavement of a family member or their parents’ divorce. It is also a good indicator as to how the person doing the bullying sees themselves; for instance, if somebody is constantly poking fun at how others look, it is more than likely they are doing so to deflect away from their own appearance-based insecurities. Likewise with sexuality; homophobia is usually a product of insecurity and a lack of education – unfortunately, instead of taking the time to understand or embrace difference, they act negatively towards the unknown.

We must start to encourage those that bully to seek the support they need. In order for them to feel comfortable enough to do that, we need to stop branding people or giving them the impression that they are undeserving of help.

Bullying is one of the biggest issues currently affecting teens and we believe that we can overcome it if we start to think differently about how we approach things. Ceasing to use disempowering labels such as ‘bully’ and ‘victim’ is a great place to start during Anti-Bullying Week 2016.

 

If you are being bullied, or are bullying others and want to stop, you can get help in our community